What is the M-PTM Model?
Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model | M-PTM
The Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (M-PTM) recognizes that the discovery of a loved one’s sex addiction causes trauma for the partner.
M-PTM is partner sensitive and as such the relationship is viewed primarily from the perspective of the partner.
M-PTM seeks to help the partner:
- Heal from the traumatic injury
- Restore a sense of “personal agency”
- Transition from a victim to an empowered and resilient individual
What is COR.E Dynamics?
- Transitions
- Wellbeing
- Performance
- Leadership
- Create sustainable behavior changes
- Identify areas where you can increase your performance, experience greater wellbeing, transition to a higher energetic engagement, or where you can become a more effective leader.
- Identify blocks and hindrances to your healing process or journey
- Create a unique action plan or a Change Plan
What to expect from BECTSPSA?
When you work with BECTSPSA you can expect the following:
- Sessions are partner focused
- Sessions are partner driven
- BECTSPSA will support you through your journey
- BECTSPSA Coach will hold you accountable to do what you agreed to do
- BECTSPSA will share resources with you
- BECTSPSA will let you know if or when additional professional services may need to be explored
What is the SCOPE APP?
SCOPE APP
Your skill doesn’t change from day to day—it’s your energy that changes and affects how well you live or perform. Whether it’s a sports, work, or home activity, learning to shift your energy is the one thing that can change EVERYTHING!
Developed by performance coaches, this is the only assessment in the world that measures your energy IN THE MOMENT, showing you which factors are influencing you and giving you strategies to shift yourself BEFORE speaking, playing, performing, competing, or accomplishing just about ANYTHING.
BECTSPSA uses the SCOPE APP to provide partners with an additional level of support (24/7) so that they are able to live their lives with intention and follow their plan even in challenging situations.
The SCOPE APP offers Partners the ability to pivot or course correct in them moment as it opens their awareness and puts the control back in their hands.
ELI Assessment
The ELI Assessment enables partners to grow in emotional intelligence and self-awareness. It offers insight as to how you respond, process in the heat of the moment as well as situationally.
- Trigger Points: What situations trigger you? Words? Phrases? Actions? Memories?
- Situational Awareness: How are you feeling right now at this moment?
- Power of Choice: What do you want to do? How do you want to respond emotionally to this occurrence?
Understanding where you are in the moment opens the way for you to choose who you want to be and how you want to respond to stress or the challenge of the situation.
REIKI
Reiki is the universal life force. Like air it this life force is around us. It is the energy of life which helps us to connect physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually with ones being.
BECTSPSA believes that this life force or life energy is Jesus Christ who is in all and who has created all.
Colossians 1:6 “For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him:”
Reiki supports a persons natural ability to heal by:
- Addressing blockages
- Balancing emotions
- Reestablishing spiritual equilibrium
- Facilitating relaxation
- Cleansing toxins
- Supporting the immune system
- Addressing issues on a cellular and possibly on a DNA level
The Power of Intention
At BECTSPSA we use the Power of Intention to help us engage, tap into and to flow with the life force.
We pray to Jesus asking for the release of healing power (energy) believing that what we are asking, expecting, and desiring will be provided.
As a Partner you do not need to believe in Jesus in order for us to use Reiki with you.
The healing energy does not come from the BECTSPSA Coach it comes from the energy force that surrounds us.
Some of the intentions that others have shared:
- Healing
- Wellness
- Clarity
- Hope
- Peace
- To stop hurting
- Regain focus
- Reclaim joy
- To laugh again
- To heal body pain
This list is not comprehensive but it does give show that intentions are unique to each partner.
Share your intentions with your Partner Reiki Coach and in agreement you can enter your session.
Sessions
Beginning of a Session
Reiki is primarily used in the beginning of a session when a Partner is overly stressed. Reiki is uses as a centering, grounding or meditative exercise. This can last from one to five minutes.
Individual Reiki Sessions
An individual Reiki session can last from 15-minutes to 30-minutes.
Group Reiki Sessions
Reiki group sessions last for approximately 45-minutes.