Betrayal Trauma Caused by Sex Addiction

Click the associated link below to find the support you need for Sexual Betrayal Trauma today.

Partners of those with sexual addiction often face Betrayal Trauma, a profound emotional struggle similar to PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder). Discovering a loved one’s addictive behaviors can feel like an intense form of betrayal, leading to overwhelming emotions such as hurt, confusion, anger, and numbness. 

Addressing unwanted sexual behavior is crucial for those dealing with sexual betrayal trauma, offering pathways to recovery and healing.

FOR UNWANTED SEXUAL BEHAVIOR

Betrayal Trauma Sexual Abuse

FOR SEXUAL BETRAYAL TRAUMA

 The effects of sexual addiction on partners are deep and far-reaching. Emotionally, partners may experience intense feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and self-doubt. Trust issues become prevalent, making it difficult to rely on the addicted partner or even others. This emotional turmoil often leads to physical symptoms such as insomnia, headaches, and gastrointestinal problems. Partners might find themselves in a state of hypervigilance, constantly on edge, and anticipating the worst.

How Life Integrity Can Help Both the Betrayed Partner and the Sex Addict Heal

Recovery from sexual addiction is crucial not only for the addict but also for their partner. By working on recovery, the addict can begin to rebuild trust and restore emotional safety in the relationship. This process involves understanding the root causes of their addiction, developing healthier coping mechanisms, and committing to consistent, honest communication. For the partner, seeing genuine efforts toward recovery can provide a glimmer of hope and a pathway to healing from Betrayal Trauma. It is essential for both individuals to seek professional support to navigate this complex journey and to rebuild a foundation of trust, respect, and mutual support.

HEALING AND RECOVERY THROUGH INTEGRATIONS

BECTSPSA integrates various therapeutic modalities to support the healing and recovery for the betrayed partner and the sex addict or betrayer.

Minwalla

Learn more soon!

Enneagram

Learn more soon!

HeartMath

Learn more soon!

Kasala

Kasalas are form of narrative therapy or praise poetry. They allow you to be able to process things on a much deeper level.They are powerful and very healing.

IFS

Learn more soon!

Somatic

Learn more soon!

TALK TO MICHELLE

MICHELLE DYETT—WELCOME, PCC, CPC, BTRL
The Breathe Easy Coach

Talk to Michelle

MORE ABOUT MICHELLE

Greetings! I’m Michelle, a Betrayal Trauma Specialist Coach and an ICF PCC level coach.

As a multi-hyphenate coach, I integrate various tools and my unique personal experiences to offer specialized support in betrayal trauma:

For partners, I guide you through the challenging aftermath of betrayal, helping you find healing and resilience.

For sex addicts, I assist you in developing empathy and evolving into a person of integrity, fostering personal growth and accountability.

For couples, I help you rebuild your relationship on a foundation of shared values, mutual respect, and the honoring of each other’s humanity.

Together, we can navigate these difficult journeys and work towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.

CERTIFICATIONS

ICF PCC Level Coach
Trauma Informed Coach Logo
Apsats Logo
The Somatic School Logo
Integrative Enneagram Logo
Kasala Logo
HeartMath Logo
COR.E Logo
IFS Level 2 trained

BECTSPSA

FAQS

I am a Betrayal Trauma Specialist Coach and an ICF PCC level coach, I use a multi-hyphenate approach integrating various tools and personal experiences. I offer specialized support by guiding you (the partner) through the aftermath of betrayal, helping you (the sex addict) to develop empathy and integrity, and assisting couples in rebuilding your (the couple) relationship by helping you (the couple) to identify and build on your shared values, and respect, and honoring your human-beingness. My approach is client-driven coaching, focusing on the present, and utilizing effective skills and relevant resources.

What qualifications and experience do you have in dealing with betrayal trauma and sex addiction?

I am a Betrayal Trauma Specialist Coach and an International Coaching Federation (ICF) Professional Certified Coach (PCC). My extensive experience includes guiding you through betrayal recovery, helping sex addicts develop personal growth and accountability, and assisting you in rebuilding your relationship. I integrate various tools and personal experiences to offer specialized support in betrayal trauma.

How do you ensure a safe and supportive environment for discussing sensitive issues?

I ensure a safe and supportive environment by maintaining strict confidentiality of everything discussed, with exceptions only in cases of suspicion of abuse, court orders, or potential harm to oneself or others. In couples work, secrets are not held between or from your partner. This confidentiality policy aligns with the principles of the IFS code of ethics, ensuring your information is protected and only shared under legally mandated circumstances.

 

What kind of support and resources do you offer between sessions?

I offer in-between session practices which we agree on in the session. They include specific skill-building exercises, resources, and activities. These resources help you to explore and identify root issues and address specific life problems effectively.

How are your sessions structured?

Sessions are structured in various packages depending on your goals and current life situation. Options include:

  • 12 sessions for $2100 (one-time payment)

  • 6 sessions for $1350 (one-time payment)

  • 4 sessions for $1000 (one-time payment)

  • Initial Assessment Session for $175

  • Per session payment of $275 is due at the time of booking.

What is your cancellation policy?

48-hour notice is required for a cancellation or rescheduling. Please note that BECTSPSA charges a cancellation fee of $175 or higher ($250) depending on the coaching package signed up for.

What payment methods do you accept?

Some of the apps charge fees and that will be added to the bill like Paypal

  • Stripe
  • Zelle
  • Cashapp
  • Wise
  • Venmo
  • Square
  • Paypal

What is your confidentiality policy?

Confidentiality is strictly maintained, with exceptions for suspicion of abuse, court orders, or potential harm to oneself or others. For couples work, secrets are not held between or from your partner. This policy aligns with the principles of the IFS code of ethics, ensuring client information is protected and only shared under legally mandated circumstances.

Who do you work with?

I work with you (the partner) as you journey through betrayal trauma. I work with you (the sex addict) as you seek personal growth and accountability and build integrity and empathy. I work with you (the couple) as you aim to rebuild your relationship. My coaching is suitable for individuals looking to achieve personal goals and address present issues, rather than those needing to address serious disorders. I am a trained IFS (Internal Family Systems) practitioner and will work with you to befriend the various parts of you that may be polarized so that you can be more self-led as you navigate your experience.

What does BECTSPSA offer?

BECTSPSA offers client-driven coaching sessions focused on helping you achieve your goals by addressing present issues hindering your vision for life. BECTSPSA provides structured session packages, initial assessments, per-session payments, and in-between-session support. BECTSPSA specializes in betrayal trauma, helping you whether you are a partner, sex addict, or couple navigate your difficult journeys toward a brighter, more fulfilling future. I, Michelle, will support you as you navigate this new and challenging terrain.