You are a human being and you did not lose that right because of betrayal or sex addiction.
-Michelle Dyett—Welcome,
The Breathe Easy Coach
Uncertain whether you’re a sex addict? Consider taking this assessment for sex addicts.
Sex addiction, often referred to as hypersexuality or compulsive sexual behavior, is a condition characterized by excessive sexual thoughts, desires, urges, or behaviors that an individual cannot control. This uncontrollable compulsion can lead to significant distress and negatively impact various aspects of a person’s life, including relationships, finances, and overall well-being.
People with sex addiction may be overly preoccupied with sexual activities, such as excessive pornography consumption, frequent sexual encounters, or compulsive masturbation. Despite efforts to stop, they often struggle, leading to feelings of shame, guilt, and frustration.
Resources to help your recover from sex addiction
Explore resources and information for sex addicts to learn more about sex addiction.
Therapeutic Disclosure
Understanding Sexual Addiction Through an IFS Perspective
IFS Therapy for Sex Addiction: Creating Internal Harmony and Lasting Recovery
Inspiring stories about recovery from sex addiction
The consequences of sex addiction can be far-reaching. Relationships with partners, family, and friends can become strained or damaged due to the secrecy, lies, and betrayal often associated with compulsive sexual behavior. Financial problems may arise from spending excessive amounts of money on sexual activities or losing jobs due to inappropriate behavior in the workplace. This constant cycle disrupts personal and professional goals.
Sex addict voices: Thoughts and feelings of a sex addict
However, sex addiction can be overcome. Medications, psychotherapy, and other modalities like Internal Family Systems (IFS), HeartMath, and support groups can provide crucial support towards recovery. Seeking help is essential. With appropriate treatment and support, individuals can manage their urges, repair relationships, and lead healthier, more fulfilling lives. Recovery is possible.
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Testimonials
“I have never met Michelle apart from Zoom calls but she knows more about me than probably anyone else on the planet. I trust her and am reassured that she is invested in my recovery and there to help me in the future. That is a great comfort to both me and my wife. Thank you, Michelle, I feel like the person I want to be, D*** with Integrity, Truth, honesty, and faithfulness.” – DH (SA)
“For the first time in a long time I got clarity I really feel like Im getting clarity back in my life. It’s not the addict speaking, it’s not Self-loathing, it’s not defensiveness, it’s not hiding it’s not lying, it’s the feeling of confidence.”
– ST (SA)
“Michelle’s extensive knowledge of Dr. Minwalla’s works coupled with her enthusiastic and supportive coaching style guided me to discover my fundamental behaviors and beliefs which drove my abusive actions. In the short period covered by the course I was able to demonstrate to my wife and family real changes in my thinking and actions. I continue to apply my learnings to further restore my integrity and underlying character. To say I have learned a lot is simply an understatement.”
LW (SA)
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MICHELLE DYETT—WELCOME, PCC, CPC, BTRL
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MORE ABOUT MICHELLE
Greetings! I’m Michelle, a Betrayal Trauma Specialist Coach and an ICF PCC level coach.
As a multi-hyphenate coach, I integrate various tools and my unique personal experiences to offer specialized support in betrayal trauma:
For partners, I guide you through the challenging aftermath of betrayal, helping you find healing and resilience.
For sex addicts, I assist you in developing empathy and evolving into a person of integrity, fostering personal growth and accountability.
For couples, I help you rebuild your relationship on a foundation of shared values, mutual respect, and the honoring of each other’s humanity.
Together, we can navigate these difficult journeys and work towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.
CERTIFICATIONS
BECTSPSA
FAQS
What specific techniques or approaches do you use to address trauma related to sex addiction?
I am a Betrayal Trauma Specialist Coach and an ICF PCC level coach, I use a multi-hyphenate approach integrating various tools and personal experiences. I offer specialized support by guiding you (the partner) through the aftermath of betrayal, helping you (the sex addict) to develop empathy and integrity, and assisting couples in rebuilding your (the couple) relationship by helping you (the couple) to identify and build on your shared values, and respect, and honoring your human-beingness. My approach is client-driven coaching, focusing on the present, and utilizing effective skills and relevant resources.
What qualifications and experience do you have in dealing with betrayal trauma and sex addiction?
I am a Betrayal Trauma Specialist Coach and an International Coaching Federation (ICF) Professional Certified Coach (PCC). My extensive experience includes guiding you through betrayal recovery, helping sex addicts develop personal growth and accountability, and assisting you in rebuilding your relationship. I integrate various tools and personal experiences to offer specialized support in betrayal trauma.
How do you ensure a safe and supportive environment for discussing sensitive issues?
I ensure a safe and supportive environment by maintaining strict confidentiality of everything discussed, with exceptions only in cases of suspicion of abuse, court orders, or potential harm to oneself or others. In couples work, secrets are not held between or from your partner. This confidentiality policy aligns with the principles of the IFS code of ethics, ensuring your information is protected and only shared under legally mandated circumstances.
What kind of support and resources do you offer between sessions?
I offer in-between session practices which we agree on in the session. They include specific skill-building exercises, resources, and activities. These resources help you to explore and identify root issues and address specific life problems effectively.
How are your sessions structured?
Sessions are structured in various packages depending on your goals and current life situation. Options include:
12 sessions for $2100 (one-time payment)
6 sessions for $1350 (one-time payment)
4 sessions for $1000 (one-time payment)
Initial Assessment Session for $175
Per session payment of $275 is due at the time of booking.
What is your cancellation policy?
48-hour notice is required for a cancellation or rescheduling. Please note that BECTSPSA charges a cancellation fee of $175 or higher ($250) depending on the coaching package signed up for.
What payment methods do you accept?
Some of the apps charge fees and that will be added to the bill like Paypal
- Stripe
- Zelle
- Cashapp
- Wise
- Venmo
- Square
- Paypal
What is your confidentiality policy?
Confidentiality is strictly maintained, with exceptions for suspicion of abuse, court orders, or potential harm to oneself or others. For couples work, secrets are not held between or from your partner. This policy aligns with the principles of the IFS code of ethics, ensuring client information is protected and only shared under legally mandated circumstances.
Who do you work with?
I work with you (the partner) as you journey through betrayal trauma. I work with you (the sex addict) as you seek personal growth and accountability and build integrity and empathy. I work with you (the couple) as you aim to rebuild your relationship. My coaching is suitable for individuals looking to achieve personal goals and address present issues, rather than those needing to address serious disorders. I am a trained IFS (Internal Family Systems) practitioner and will work with you to befriend the various parts of you that may be polarized so that you can be more self-led as you navigate your experience.
What does BECTSPSA offer?
BECTSPSA offers client-driven coaching sessions focused on helping you achieve your goals by addressing present issues hindering your vision for life. BECTSPSA provides structured session packages, initial assessments, per-session payments, and in-between-session support. BECTSPSA specializes in betrayal trauma, helping you whether you are a partner, sex addict, or couple navigate your difficult journeys toward a brighter, more fulfilling future. I, Michelle, will support you as you navigate this new and challenging terrain.